How to live your best life

We as humans need to rest, we are not machines. We made ourselves chase what our mind wants, what we think can give us peace and success. But we are totally wrong about it. I, being a civil engineer, my dream was to study civil engineering and start some kind of startup in the same field. I wanted to study in the top most universities of Pakistan, because I’ve always been an average student, I was never a topper but I had failed in many subjects. I might be the one who scored the lowest in her exams in the whole family. I thought studying in a top university would change things, my family would accept me with the average personality I have, I’d find friends, maybe good enough to find a loyal partner. But things got completely opposite. I indeed got friends, but at each moment where they should be with me, they betrayed. And yeah, I got one friend, a good one tho, thankful to him for being with me in the bads. But that person is still the opposite gender, I thought things will get easy ...

We have been living our lives in the best possible way. From hardships to peace, we all want to get out of the chaos of life and achieve enough success to survive in this society. But in this race of achieving success at every point, and satisfying the world by meeting its expectations, we never ask about ourselves. We are so caught up in this race that we almost forget we are human. We need to relax, we need peace. We don’t notice while chasing those endless roads what we have become. We don’t notice the person we left behind, the person that was not supposed to be left. To keep the outside world happy, we killed that person, not killed, but murdered. What do you think? Have you achieved a lot? Yes, indeed, you did. You are a millionaire, you are well enough to buy your dream car, your dream home. You achieved that PhD degree in your field of interest. You even got a professor at your dream university. Yes, these are achievements.  You have become successful. CONGRATULATIONS. But...